The Sin of This
Generation
By Joe Shrader, PhD
East Carolina University
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Note: Dr. Joe Shrader
is the editor's brother. He received his Ph.D from Michigan State
University and is an associate professor at ECU in Greenville, North
Carolina. |
The sin of this generation is selfishness. It manifests itself by the
disrespect shown the church elders. The arrogance of this generation in
ignoring the elders of the church is not only wrong, it is sin. God commands us
to listen and show respect for the elders of the church.
The leaders in today's
church, in many cases, are young, ignorant of experience and scripture,
and in the "warrior" stage of life. They are not elders. They disrespect the
real elders in the church. They make decisions for the church based on business
models, books written by "successful" Christian leaders, but not on THE book.
The elderly are systematically excluded from the planning and decision making
process. They can be outvoted, even shouted down at business meetings. The
elderly know it is wrong to act that way and so they refuse to participate in
the fighting. They believe it is better to be wronged than to offend their
younger brothers. So the young get their way.
God commands us to
listen to our elders. He commands us to seek wise (Godly) counsel from them.
These men and women have experiences that this generation has never even thought
about much less had to deal with. They have been to war and watched their
buddies die. They have killed men in defense of their country. Even worse,
they have sent their sons to die. They have watched and helped as illness and
disease have taken their brethren and family members. They have taken second
mortgages to help a struggling church get started or get through tough times.
They have dealt with church discipline and sin in the church. They have put
their faith in God in difficult times. This is the group who mowed the lawn,
trimmed the bushes, even cleaned the church as a part of their ministry.
This selfish generation
thinks that difficult times is building their new $400,000 house. “All those
decisions to make, it just wears a person out.”
This generation knows
nothing of sacrifice. In or out of the church. They have money, though they
usually spend themselves into oblivion on things). Instead of getting involved
in the ministry of helps, they hire someone to do all these things for them.
They hire associate pastors for youth to teach their children, associate pastors
of music to entertain them, and seniors pastors so they don't have to get too
involved with the old people, and even more pastors for anything else that the
church might want. Heaven forbid that they would get involved in a ministry or
the life of some needy family that might need for them to give up something in
their busy schedule. This is the generation that puts their children in daycare
and their parents and grandparents into nursing homes. (OK, assisted living.)
They hire someone to do it so they can spend Saturday at the river without
feeling guilty. After all, someone is taking care of it. This generation
is too busy working to pay for all the toys and their place at the river or
lake. Oh, the impatience of youth. “Got to have it all now.”
This generation uses the
current business models to grow the church. Target audiences become the rich
young couples with children. They will grow the church and pay for all the
associate pastors. They will attract even more young, upwardly mobile, couples
so we can pay for more associate pastors to do their ministry for them. They
don't go to the highways and hedges, they go to the upscale neighborhoods.
This generation spends
much more money on buildings, entertainment and programs, than on sending
missionaries to a lost world. They misunderstand the whole Christian culture of
sacrifice and helping others fulfill the Great Commission though their parents
still understand it well. How many of these young people would encourage THEIR
children to go to China, Africa or some other country as a missionary? Or would
let their daughters marry some young preacher boy. “What kind of a choice is
that? I know it has to be done, but . . . just not my child."
Can you imagine this
generation recruiting seniors to their church? Seniors are far too high
maintenance: they need time, companionship, even transportation to church, the
doctor's office or grocery store. We can hire a seniors pastor for that. Old
people are on fixed incomes, they may even have trouble paying their heat and
electricity bills. How much can they give to help the church build that new
playground? We might even have to help them pay their bills! You can't build a
church on the elderly.
This generation has
replaced spirituality with sincerity. “We really believe this is
best for the church so it must be what God wants. Why would we all agree if it
isn't God's leading?” All of this while ignoring the clear teachings of
scripture because "it feels right". Selfishness!
This generation has no
concept of the Christian church family (I Cor. 12, Acts 2). “If the old people
don't like it, they can just leave,” I have been told. "We need to purge the
church of the negative people" (i.e. those who disagree with them). "For every
family that leaves, there will be others to replace them." With young
wage-earners no doubt. Sorrow is not in this generation's paradigm. People
leaving is just part of the business of the church.
So this generation goes
on its merry way, sincere in their ignorance, making the same mistakes their
elders may have made. They ignore the wise voices available to them that would
help them avoid making the same mistakes. They are too busy recruiting more
young, arrogant sheep who will perpetuate their sin, all the while assuming
success and God's blessing because they have more people attending, and more
staff, and a new Family Life Center . . .God help us!
Daniel wouldn't eat the
meat. Shadrach, Meshach and Abednego stood their ground. Paul told Peter he
was wrong "to the face". Popular is not always right. Our fathers did not
decline to disagree with church leaders when they are demonstrating this
selfishness.
It is not too late.
Commit to spending some time with your elders. Find an elderly saint, sit down
and shut up! Listen to what God has done for them for 70 to 80 years. You
might be amazed what God might teach you about faith, ministry and perseverance.
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